cant sleep

[GnomeWizardd]

Damn been up for 40 hours and still cant sleep.

Women suck

[primesuspect]

that could be considered a good thing....

[csimon]

she step on your heart bud?

[GnomeWizardd]

not sure but its hell....

V day couldnt have gone any better and i was sure i had her commited to just me and now her ex b/f comes back and stirs her feelings up ( she spent 3 yrs with him and ended it with him right before she met me ) so after talking i suggested that we need to just wait till she figures out what she wants before we see eachother again. Now i cant get her out of my head and ive all but given up that she will end up with me My hope now is that she just doesnt go back to her ex cause he is a prick

[Crazy Joe]

Ya, women sure seem to be a pain in the arse sometimes...

[mmonnin]

Hey, I know where you're at man. I cant get this one girl out of my head. We were together for 2+ years, I fscked up and ended it. I had another chance with her for while a little bit ago but something changed and I prolly lost her for good now. Every song I hear, I can relate to it seems. Every song sounds like part of it could be our relationship in parts. And of course like almost every song is about love, its like all I think about in the car when I am driving. It never went so far as to not being able to sleep but I know I havent been able to get to sleep right away because of it.

I dont want to say that she will pass and along will come another girl cause I know thats not what you want right now and I know thats not what I want either since I am kinda in the same boat. But take it from me, dont let her go. Dont give up on her. Keep in touch and let her know how you feel. I lost the only one I have ever wanted twice now, pretty much my own fault, and I dont want you to do the same. Cheer up man, she will come around if it was meant to be. Dont let her have any doubts about you or who you are, be totally honest.

No go get some rest man. Take an advil or something.

[LawnMM]

Just a bit of advice from experience. Don't make any plans on having a long term/serious relationship with a woman who JUST got out of a long term relationship. You'll almost certainly turn into the rebound guy...intentional or not on both your parts.

Oh, maturity helps too...might want to invest some time in some ladies that are outside their teen years.

[Thrax]

Rayne'll probably kill me for posting this, but I'm going to.

Last year, I ****ed up. Big time. I listened when I should not have, and I felt before I thought. When it got right down to it, I alienated her... I ****ed up. That was a rather horrible part of my life, and I spent a great many months struggling to come to terms with what had happened; in many ways it was the greatest emotional struggle I've endured to date... Loving so deeply, confused about the twenty-four hour whirlwind of my ****up, coming to terms with the fact that I still loved her no matter what way I tried to twist my mind, finding out that the reasons for my ****up were totally fabricated, and then spending a good long while attempting to make an apology worth saying to someone that makes you feel things you don't even have words to describe. How do you do that?

I wanted to move on, tried to move on.. My heart didn't. It didn't give up because it knew something my head didn't.. It saw something that I had been blind to. Needless to say, Rayne waited a good long time for me to come to my senses, and to my eternal joy, her love for me was greater than my ignorance.

I came around, and she took me back with open arms.. Far less scorn and rebuke than I had expected. I was prepared to be rejected, to hear those words which I myself was trying to feel through and through: "I've moved on." I never felt that, though, and neither did she. Our love is stronger than it has ever been, and I know now with every fiber of my being, meta and real, that she is the one true thing in which I know I can believe.

The point of the story is, love works in very mysterious ways... If it was meant to be, people, time and distance cannot stop it. If the love is in her heart, and she's mature enough to realize with clarity that that love is there, she'll come back. Have faith, Gnome.. Have faith, and wait. If there's one thing I've learned in the last three years, and if there's one thing that Rayne has taught me above all else, it's that there are a great many mediocre things in this world and love should not be one of them. It should be vivid, passionate, firm and unfaltering.. A raging storm one moment, and a tranquil sunrise on a calm ocean the next. If what you have, or what you're being given is not to your most true sense of desire.. You're enduring mediocrity, and no one deserves that. Be patient with her, and if she feels as you do, she'll come back... And then you just may find, as I did with Rayne, that absence makes the heart grow fonder, and the brilliance things you may have taken for granted will shine right through.

[mmonnin]

Thrax's story is very similar to mine. The time apart was around 8 months. I fscked up like he did. I didnt see that I still loved her. I couldnt admin to it until a long time after. I couldnt move on. I caught myself checking my phone to see if she called even tho she had absolutley no reason to call. Checked her MSN name every day. I had the chance to get back with her and it worked for a bit. But now I am the one waiting this time. And I will continue to wait because she is worth it. Dont give up Gnome.

[GnomeWizardd]

AS Thrax knows by now I love everyone Life is great!

Her car broke down i fixed it and that was what did it. She came back and chose me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :rarr: :rarr: :rarr: :rarr: :rarr:

[TBonZ]

Geez, you guys are stirring up old feelings in me. When I was 19, I dated a girl named Jennifer Yuill and Like Marc and Thrax maybe took things for granted and I cast her aside, I f**ked up too. I came around to my senses but it was too late and was never granted a second chance.

She was somebody I would've and could've spent the rest of my life with but was just too young and too stupid to realize it. Jennifer is no longer on earth now, she had an asthma condition and while participating in a water sport, she had a severe attack and died. That was 7 years ago now and I still haven't forgiven myself for the way I treated her when we broke up. I don't believe I have ever told a single person this and now here I am posting it on the internet. :(

Glad you guys are back together Gnome, try not to f**k up if she's really worth it.

[Nomad]

Ya, women sure seem to be a pain in the arse sometimes...

Kinky.

[TheBaron]

Kinky.
rawr
*paws*

[Freemymelody]

Originally Posted by CrazyJoe0813
Ya, women sure seem to be a pain in the arse sometimes...


:whatever: ....I'm no pain in da arse......

I'm nothing like that!. :D anyways check out my KIRBY dance!!!!!!!!! :thumbsup:

<(' ')> (>' ')> <(' '<) (>' '<) ^(' ')^ <(' ')> (>' ')> <(' '<) (>' '<) ^(' ')^

[Thrax]

(>-_xO==(^_^<)

That's right.

[Freemymelody]

(>-_xO==(^_^<)

That's right.


sock it to him.... :D