LOL... I seriously feel sorry for all your folks with eMule trouble.
NS, so you're saying that the part file disappeared entirely? If the part-file (###.part) still exists but the ###.part.met file is nonexistant, perhaps MetMedic could fix the problem? Otherwise, I guess you'll have to redownload.
for some reason i can never get more than 1 or 2 people feeding me a file at a time and they are, yes u guessed it, on 56k modems.
No no... eMule just opens new upload slots when a slot reaches 2.8KB/s, and it always has a minimum of three slots open. eMule is not designed to be fast, the entire eDonkey network has always been slow as mollasses when it comes to single file transfers (Most of the time).
If you want to max out your connection with eMule, download 25 files at once. That way something is always completing and a lot of things are always transferring. Otherwise you'll never even get close... Patience is key.
Anyway, I love the **** out of eMule and with good reason... It's given me uhhhhhh 217 high quality DVD rips and counting. Okay, I guess thirty of them came from IRC way back when.