You're missing the point entirely. You are wanted by proxy. I don't have the energy or time to want everybody. I want everybody and nobody. It doesn't matter. Whether you are wanted or not (which you are and aren't), you should come if you want, and don't if you can't or don't. English is being butchered at an alarming rate in this post. Massacred, even. Whether I want, don't want, can't want, or won't want, you shouldn't not want to come even if you can't or don't want to!