Seems like i got it working, it stays connected forever now, i havent gotten kicked ... I just set the compression to 6 (default) and turn off that colorrect thing. I use the "tight" encoding for TightVNC
I dont see where it would say there are errors.... both machines are on cable.
But thanks guys... if i get any other problems i'll let you know
ps... just found out that my router does remote management



i can access my router through IE fro manywhere. Im stoked